How do you define balance?
Does this simple, two-syllable word have a positive connotation for you or does it bring images to your mind of a frenzied circus performer spinning plates or a precariously perched gymnast landing a backflip on a slender beam?
I recently discovered this little treasure left for me on the garden fence by my son. His visual interpretation of balance has me thinking about balance in a new way.
I hear so much about work-life balance, balanced diet, balanced budget, and so on. It is overwhelming. At any particular moment, I am likely unbalanced in one or all of these areas.
I often find myself focused on what is unbalanced in my life or what I think the ideal balance should look like. I forget to appreciate all that is beautifully balanced around me.
Subconsciously, I am achieving balance all the time. When I stand, walk, put books on a shelf, hang a picture on the wall, or adjust the eggs in the egg carton so all the weight isn’t on one side, I’m finding balance.
Like my son’s rock monument, balance may at times look lopsided, a jumble of all shapes and sizes, but if it works, it works. (And when it works – it’s beautiful!)
One of my grandchildren is just learning to walk. Watching her learn to balance is also inspiring. She may get frustrated at times, but she never gives up. She holds on to furniture or her mom or dad for support. She delights in her family’s encouragement and celebrates even small achievements with a huge smile. She keeps practicing until her balance is better and she becomes more confident. She recognizes that balance (walking) is a worthy goal and worth her effort (so she can keep up with her siblings!).
So, I think I will try taking a cue from my son and my granddaughter. I will try to worry less about what balance looks like and just figure out what works for me. I will remember that it is okay to seek support and encouragement when I need it, to celebrate even small successes, and to never give up!
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